My mother in law has always been a problem, but he consistently calls our partner as well as requires him to cater to her. She is so needy as well as demanding of his time. She also doesn’t have a ton of money but prefers to getaway, however it makes for a cheap trip if he comes to our house. She only needs to pay for his flight as well as then everything is taken care of, but my partner picks his up at the airport, he stays with us for free as well as gets meals catered to her. I cook, celan as well as our partner organizes activities for her. Since the trip is so cheap as well as done well, he wants to come all the time. I told our partner he is a once a year guest, and once he arrives it is nearly impossible to get his out of the house! When the two of us lived in FL our mother in law would stay a minimum of a week, but there was 1 trip where he squatted at our modern home for several weeks; Now that the two of us live in Lowell, MI, he isn’t as eager to stay. I also try to make it so his trip is in the middle of winter. When he starts talking about Summer traveling, I push our partner to organize a holiday season trip. I want his to get weather in the 30s rather than pleasant, sunny days. I also try to make the experience not super great. I don’t take his to the good shops, cute eating establishments or local cannabis dispensaries. Instead he gets stuck in our freezing cold modern home as well as leaves after appreciate several days. It is evil although I legitimately don’t appreciate that man.